Monday, February 3, 2025

How to Tell the Difference Between Intuition & Anxiety

 


Ever had a strong feeling about something and wondered, Is this my intuition speaking or just my anxiety dressed up in a wise robe? You’re not alone!

Telling the difference between intuition and anxiety can feel like playing emotional detective—one clue leads you forward, while the other sends you into a web of overthinking. But don’t worry, by the end of this post, you’ll have a clear way to tell them apart (without flipping a coin or texting five friends for validation).

Let’s dive in!


Intuition: Your Inner GPS (That Actually Knows Where It's Going)

Intuition is that subtle, knowing feeling that nudges you in the right direction—without a 20-minute debate in your head.

 It’s:

✅ Gentle, calm, and reassuring
✅ Focused on the present moment
✅ Free of panic, even if it warns you of something
✅ Usually followed by a sense of clarity and relief

Think of it as your inner mentor—wise, direct, and never shouting at you in all caps. It might come as a gut feeling, a sudden knowing, or even a whisper of inspiration when you least expect it.

Example of intuition in action:

You meet someone new, and something just feels off—like they’re the type to borrow your favorite book and never return it.

 No proof, no red flags, just a subtle feeling. 

That’s intuition at work.


Anxiety: The Overprotective Friend That Won’t Let You Rest

Anxiety, on the other hand, is like that one friend who overanalyzes everything and assumes the worst possible scenario.

 It's:

❌ Loud, frantic, and fear-driven
❌ Stuck in the past or the future (not the present)
❌ Focused on what could go wrong rather than what feels right
❌ Accompanied by physical symptoms—racing thoughts, tight chest, restlessness

Anxiety doesn’t guide—it hijacks. Instead of nudging you forward, it loops you into an exhausting cycle of “What if?”

Example of anxiety in action:

You send a text and don’t get a reply within an hour. Your brain decides the recipient must be ghosting you, upset with you, or, I don’t know, abducted by aliens. 

Rational? Not really. Anxiety? Absolutely.


How to Tell If It’s Intuition or Anxiety (Without Losing Your Mind)

Next time you're feeling torn between the two, ask yourself these questions:

1️⃣ What’s the tone of the message?

  • Intuition is calm, like an older sibling who’s seen it all.
  • Anxiety is frantic, like a squirrel on espresso.

2️⃣ How does your body react?

  • Intuition feels like an inner aha moment—light, clear, and sometimes even peaceful.
  • Anxiety feels like an internal alarm system malfunctioning—tight chest, racing heart, sweaty palms.

3️⃣ Does this thought help or trap me?

  • Intuition moves you toward solutions and clarity.
  • Anxiety spins you in circles, making the situation feel worse.

4️⃣ Is it fear-based or trust-based?

  • Intuition trusts that you already have the answers.
  • Anxiety doubts everything, including itself.

How to Strengthen Your Intuition & Calm Anxiety

If anxiety is constantly stealing the mic, try these practices to tune back into your inner wisdom:

🌿 Mindfulness & Meditation – Helps quiet the noise so your intuition can actually get a word in.


📝 Journaling – Get those thoughts out of your head and onto paper. Need guidance? “My Book of Answers” Journal is designed to help you sort through thoughts, emotions, and intuitive nudges. Check it out here!


🚶‍♀️ Step Away from the Noise – Nature walks, digital detoxes, and even solo coffee dates can help you reconnect with your inner voice.


💡 Test Your Intuition in Small Ways – Before making big decisions, practice listening to your gut on smaller things (e.g., choosing what to eat, picking a route home).


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Final Thoughts: Trust Yourself More

Your intuition is always speaking—it’s just a matter of turning down the volume on anxiety long enough to hear it. The more you practice listening to your inner wisdom, the easier it becomes to make decisions with clarity and confidence.

Now tell me—have you ever mistaken anxiety for intuition? 

How do you tune into your inner voice? 

Let’s chat in the comments! 💬✨

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